Negligible and unrealistic mistakes most parents makes and it's effects on children behaviours

 

Common mistakes most parents makes and it's effects on children behaviours

The fruit of every marriage is children and the joy of every parents is to have them round the table, the pride of every child is to have good and responsible parents and the glory of every parents is to have well behaved and successful children in all their endeavours, no parents take delight in the waywardness and failure of their children neither do children derived pleasure in disappointing their parents, making them feel worthless, stupid and regretful in raising them up , the success or failure of every child is dependent on the responsibility of the parents and the manner in which they were raised.

Of a truth, parents goes through a lot in training children and their efforts can never and should not be taking for granted, some parents goes extra mile in making sure their children become successful or rather amount to something great in life, no love on earth is as great as the love of parents for their children, for the love of a child, some parents sacrifice their happiness for the joy of the child, deprived themselves of good things of life for the future of their children, some even sacrifice their life for the wellbeing of their children, words are not enough to express how far some parents can go. However, it is not enough to sacrifice all for a child and still watch him or her become wayward, rascal and unfortunate before your very eyes, this often occur due to some unrealistic and negligible mistakes in child bearing and in the process of bringing up children.

Ofcourse, it is good to have many children but in most cases it's not necessary, of what benefits it is having them in multitude and not being able to properly cater for them and giving them the best you actually desire as parents? perhaps, you are sacrificing your best but your best isn't a enough due to wrong calculation in child bearing, consequently resulting to double pain on parents and children resulting to societal brutality, as parents, your joy is not full despite the effort to offer your best, and in the same vain, the children are likely exposed to negativities such as, fraud, hook-up, kidnapping and other social vises due to lack of proper cares, and struggle for survival.

To the best of my knowledge, there's no theory or philosophy to justify this negligible mistakes by parents, majorly in African continent and other few nations of the world, since child bearing can be controlled, parents must understand their economic strength, in fact, their economic strength should be the major determinant factor for bearing children so as to avoid improper up bringingThe major determinant factors for child bearing must be Economic factors, Environmental factors and financial status, parents should be able to consider their earning and the yearly income of the nation to determine the number of children to have, they should be able to exermine the the environment in which there occupied, considering the culture, beliefs and practices of the people living in the environment, because children are easily influenced by their environment, peers and groups by which they associate. Parents living in a single room apartment should avoid every act of intimacy or sexual intercourse in the presence of their child, as kids learn faster by experience, what there see and hear per time.

Unrealistic mistakes both rich and poor parents make

Over pampering children in the name of love often leads to laziness on the part of the children, in most cases, it's affect their creativities and productivities resulting to over dependency in their endeavours, rich parents may give to their kids things of important valuables but not necessary at a particular age or point in time. Imagine giving a car worth 30M to a college child at the age of 16 to 18 years, what is your expectations of him or he

Poor parents should avoid emotional distraction and causing commotion in their children imagination, for instance, having intercourse before kids, expecially parents living in one or two rooms apartment with over five to six children, most time you wonder how parents make love, some people think making love or having sex at night is the best way, meanwhile when you think children are sleeping may be when they're actually not sleeping, some may be pretending to have fall asleep while observing, therefore, it is advisable that parent with low income should control their child bearing, if possible, having two kids it's enoug

Finally, parents should avoid exposing their under age children to too much of social media in the name of civilization and technological advancement as children could go extra mile in using those device s to access things that are beyond parental imagination such as pornography, internet fraudulent and so o

"Train up a child the way he should go and when he grew up, he will not departs from it" how you train your children determine what they become in life, parents should at all cost avoid argument and unecessary violents display before children, no misunderstanding or argument between father and mother should escalate or degenerate to punching or hitting each other ( fighting), in other to avoid raising violence childr

Facts

"Parents must understand their economic strength, in fact, their economic strength should be the major determinant factor for bearing children so as to avoid improper up bringing"

"No misunderstanding or argument between parents should emanate or degenerate to punching or hitting (fighting) each other, to avoid raising violence children

Train up a child the way he should go and when he grew up, he will not departs from i

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