Premarital sex in a relationship

 

Sex is an intimate relationship or intercourse between two opposite gender, it's involves kissing, romance, that is, touching or cuddling sensitive part of the body of the opposite gender or the penetration of the male sensitive organ in the female for the purpose of orgasm. 

Avoid premarital sex

Premarital sex in a relationship often leads to broken relationship and should be avoided, some of the effects it's produces before eventually results to total separation is DISTRUST, and a relationship that lack trust definitely emanate to crisis, misunderstanding and unecessary suspecion.

Premarital sex in a relationship

1.What is sex?

2. Categories of sexual intercourse

3.Understanding premarital sex.

4.The effects of premarital sex in a relationship.

5.How to avoid premarital sex.

What is sexual intercourse?

As earlier explained, Sex is an intimate relationship or intercourse between two opposite gender, it's involves kissing, romance, that is, touching or cuddling sensitive part of the body of the opposite gender or the penetration of the male sensitive organ( penis ) in the female organ (vargina) for the purpose of orgasm or sexual satisfaction. Sex is sweet and legal as ordained my God, it is the process through which reproduction take place, sex is fun and it brings out the sweetest part of a couple in a relationship, it creates a lasting memories if the act is exhibited through genuine affection.

sex abused, in as much as sex is sweet and fun, it can be abused through legal or illegal means, sex is legal if practice in marriage and it become illegal if practice outside marriage, but whether legal or illegal, it is abused through rape, that is, forcefully having cannal knowledge of the opposite gender without their consent or permission. It could also means taking advantage of an under age gender sexually.

Categories of sexual intercourse

There are different types of sexual intercourse, which are ; vargina sex, that is, the penetration of penis into the vargina. Anal sex, this is the type of intercourse that has to do with penetration of the anus ( buit ), Oral sex ( mouth to genital contact) Fingering sex to mention but few.

Premarital sex in a relationship

First and foremost, I would like us to understand what premarital sex is all about, premarital sex simply means intercourse outside marriage, it could be referred to as illegal sex practice as it's act is not permitted by the law of marriage. In our previous discussion, sex is good, in fact, it is healthier and advisable because it helps one to live healthy and active in all sense as advisable by physician, but indulging in the the act before marriage is what is referred to as premarital sex. Haven understand this, what then is relationship? Relationship is a legal union between two opposite gender with the perfect understanding and agreement to do things in common, studying one's character and having same sense of purpose with the mindset to eventually end up in a marital relationship.

Different between marital and premarital relationship

Premarital relationship is the type of relationship that exists between two unmarried couples with the mindset to end in a marital relationship, while marital relationship is the relationship between married couples. One of the major key differents between premarital and marital relationship is sex , while sexual intercourse is involved in a marital relationship, in a premarital relationship it is excluded and prohibited. However, this idea may not be acceptable to every human race due to beliefs and religious practices but speaking from both the moral and religious perspective, it is advisable to abstain from premarital sex in a relationship due to it implication and negative effects on relationship.

Effects of premarital sex in a relationship

Sex is fun and enjoyable in a relationship, but indulging in a sexual a t before marriage is totally out of points and not advisable as it effects is always negative. Most people will dispute this fact based on their ideas of what relationship is, while some believe, without sexual intercourse, the union between two unmarried couples can not be regarded as relationship regardless the agreement, others says sex is a prove of Love in a relationship and without sex, no relationship, but speaking from experience and from the moral aspect of life, sex before marriage is a disaster, why because, it is not in the culture of a woman to toast a man, though it's depends on the ethics, custom and beliefs the human race you belong. Nevertheless, from the religious and moral sense, it is the man that approach the woman first, women only give signs and symbols majorly in actions, interaction and salutations to show their interest in a man. However, when are sight a lady he likes, he approaches her with respect and hold her in high esteem, trying to understand her and trust her for whom she is the moment the lady accept him for a relationship.

As at this stage the couples both respect each others decision, trying to trust and torelate each other for a just or no cost, showing affection and expressing it in their various love languages, in words and indeed. But ironically, the moment the come to see each others nakedness on the bases of sexual udge and intercourse, they tend to be more emotionally connected and sensitive, consequently resulting to the following effects.

Jealousy, unecessary suspecion, disrespect , distrust, misunderstanding and intolerant. Aside this, premarital sex in a relationship could lead to unwanted pregnancy. Mind you, there's possibility of loving the same person you distrust and even disrespect, funny enough, 98 percent of such toxic relationship end's up with heart break and paradventure such relationship end in a marital relationship, you can imagine how disastrous it maybe.

How to avoid premarital sex in a relationship

Showing how much you love or feel towards your partner does not necessarily means sex, as the matter of fact, having intercourse with your spouse is not a symbol of love or an expression of feelings, it is highly indecent and selfish to demand for sex in the name of expression of love. They are veriouse love languages and in which true love can be demonstrated. (1) we have words of affirmation, (2) we have act of service, (3). We have Time, (4) we have gifting and (5) Touching. For more explanation on this five love languages visit our site and watch out for the next articles. However, for the sake of this topic I will explain in summary.

To avoid premarital sex, love should be demonstrated in words, that is, in admiration, telling how beautiful and amazing your spouse is as well as apprecriating every of his or her kind gesture.

Spending more time together in oneness of purpose and planning the beautiful future ahead, is a way of demonstrating affection.

Assisting each other to solve a challenge and helping each other to overcome certain issue of concern is another way of showing love.

From time to time, you exchange gifts, no matter how little, it's should be appreciated and not one sided.

Finally, there could be peck or kiss, hugging and hand check to show how the intimacy of the relationship but at all cost, avoid premarital marital sex.

                          FACTS TO NOTE

"It is not in the culture of woman to toast a man, though it depends on the ethnics, custom and beliefs of the human race we exist".

"Having intercourse with your partner is not a symbol of love or an expression of feelings".

"It is highly indecent and selfish to demand for sex in the name of proofing love".

"Spending more time together in oneness of purpose and planning the beautiful future ahead, is a way of demonstrating affection".